The majority of these dating mistakes are avoidable if only you are a bit more informed or knowledgeable enough.
A Relationship is as fragile as an egg and must be properly handled to avoid breakage.
And yet we still have an awful habit of doing just that, only to fill air in their already swelling egos.
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / 10 Mistakes Women Make With Men (27106 Views) The 10 Mistakes Nigerian Men Must Not Do When In Relationship With Their Woman / The Ten Biggest Mistakes Women Make In A Relationship. Thinking back on past dating and relationships I've had, I was selfish and didn't offer much. But they did..the while hoping that I would somehow change. The only thing they saw in me that led them to want to keep me around was the “potential” they saw in me to share my feelings and communicate with them.
We have this weird, indescribable fascination with bad boys and all their baggage. They’re both exhilarating and intoxicating at the same time.
Blunders, misinterpretation and faults are the awkward bundle of traps we cannot help fall into no matter how hard we try to be the perfect dating partners for our male counterparts.
And more importantly, I wasn't even at a place in my life where I knew how to or was interested in developing a deep and committed relationship - with ANYONE. But until you accept that lots of women do this AND that YOU could be doing it on some level, you'll NEVER have the success with men that you choose and want. And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything... The signals men send have 4 main levels: Social: Where the man is at in his own life - stability, confidence, direction Emotional: Whether or not he's “emotionally available” Physical: If he's attracted to you... You need to learn to recognize these signals to get anywhere serious with a man.
Very often, good-mannered and honorable women ruin their intimate relationships due to some of these common mistakes women make while dating.
/ Mistakes Women Make When Their Guys Cheat On Them (1) (2) (3) (4) MISTAKE #1: Betting Your Love Life On His "Potential"Do you know any women who want the man they're dating to behave differently? And just like me, I'm sure you have friends who date guys who don't have much going for them or who don't treat them very well. Women (and men) don't base their choices of men on how “nice” or “good” someone is to them day-to-day. Well, to put it simply, they confuse the strong attraction they feel for the guy with a deeper “connection”. The potential for something better and the potential for me to change and be a better lover, boyfriend, companion or whatever... MISTAKE #5: Misreading The Important “Signals” That Men Send Men are constantly communicating how they feel about a woman and giving away big secrets about themselves.
Somehow these women always have an excuse for the guy's shortcomings. Women choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. Some women will continue to put up with a guy that doesn't treat them very well. Women who do this are doomed to end up in failed relationships with the “wrong” guys. The truth was, I was hopelessly bad at these things at the time. Most women don't pay attention to these signals or recognize them for what they really are.
If you hope to have a healthy relationship, you must tread cautiously, especially during the initial dating period when you are still working to build trust.
When you nurture and grow your relationship in this way, it is sure to reach perfect maturity. It is erroneous to put up with ill treatments hoping that things will change over time.